“I spoke in anger” – Desola Afod writes a heartfelt apology to the movie industry

Desola Afod, the wife of Nollywood actor, Kunle Afod, has written a heartfelt apology to the entire movie industry.

In a lengthy post on her social media page, she apologised to every practitioner in the movie industry for her choice of words, acknowledging that she shouldn’t have generalised and taking full responsibility.

She said she meant to address a particular set of individuals within the industry. Still, unfortunately, the way she expressed herself made it seem as though she was referring to everyone.

Desola made it clear that taking responsibility for her mistake doesn’t mean abandoning her identity, her values, or her right to express herself.

“A HEARTFELT APOLOGY TO THE ENTIRE MOVIE INDUSTRY

To every practitioner in the movie industry, I sincerely and deeply apologise for my choice of words, particularly the statement “Gbogbo ẹyin Oni tiatia.” Looking back, I acknowledge that this generalisation was wrong, and I take full responsibility.

I intended to address a particular set of individuals within the industry, but unfortunately, the way I expressed myself made it seem as though I was referring to everyone. I understand that my words were inappropriate and could have offended many people whom I genuinely respect and hold in high regard. For this, I am truly sorry.

To my fathers, mothers, senior colleagues, and respected elders in the industry, I humbly ask that you find a place in your hearts to forgive me. I spoke in anger, but I understand that anger is never an excuse for disrespect. I should have expressed myself more carefully and responsibly.
To those who misunderstood or misrepresented my statement, I also apologise for the confusion and offence my words may have caused. I acknowledge my mistake, and I am willing to learn from this experience. I promise to be more mindful of my words and actions going forward.

However, I also want to make it clear that taking responsibility for my mistake does not mean abandoning my identity, my values, or my right to express myself. I accept my fault, I apologise sincerely, and I am committed to becoming a better version of myself. I only hope that this incident will not be used to define my entire person or overshadow the good intentions I have always carried.

I have nothing but respect for the hardworking men and womën in the movie industry, and I would never intentionally seek to disrespect the people who have contributed so much to the entertainment industry.

Once again, to everyone I have offended, especially my fathers, mothers, and elders, please accept my sincere apology. I am human; I have made a mistake, and I am humble enough to admit it.

I am deeply sorry, and I promise to do better.

With respect and humility.

DESOLA AFOD,
CELEB WIFE”.

Kemi Filani reported that Desola, in a video she shared online, had called out actors and actresses for constantly disrespecting her. She noted that she is older than most of them and, as such, shouldn’t be addressed by her first name.

In response, Bimbo told her to shut up, saying people in the industry were only staying quiet out of respect for her husband. She said they’re giving Desola the same respect they give to Afod, who gave her the fame she enjoys today.

Not done, Bimbo claimed the shading video was mostly aimed at her, as she admonished the mother of three not to come for her and warned that she would fight back.

Joining Bimbo Success, Wumi Toriola called out Desola, telling her to name those who disrespected her rather than disrespecting the industry. She urged her to start bearing her father’s name if her ex’s name was giving her problems.

Other Nollywood actors, including Arike Akinyanju, Nkechi Blessing, Yetunde Bakare, Seyi Edun, Yetunde Barnabas, and Tosin Olaniyan, took to Wumi Toriola’s comment section to support her point.

Awele Odita sent a strict but warm warning to Desola Afod, urging her to personally address those who disrespected her. She told her outright not to insult the industry because some of the actresses she might be referring to are much older than her.

Amid the clash, she wrote a message to her lovers, thanking the genuine people who truly love and support her. She said she values them and made it known that it is always love and light.

Bowing to pressure, she retracted her statement and thanked Afeez Owo for reaching out. To those who did her dirty, she said she had moved on, but one thing remains unchanged: she is still Desola Afod, celebrity wife till the end of time.

It is no longer news that Kunle Afod and Desola have parted ways. The couple’s separation and the cause of the breakup remain unknown to the public, as they’re keeping quiet about it, likely out of respect for their kids.